Here is what I think. You are attracting those people into your life because deep within you might have this fear of advancing way above the levels of your so called friends. In my eyes, friends ain’t friends if they try to pull you down.

Unfortunately you have to push through those setbacks and distance yourself from these people. I had to do the same with some members of my birth family. They were consistently pulling me down in many ways and no matter how much I discussed, argued, cried and fought with them, nothing ever changed. So I did what had to be done. I created a massive distance between us and it has helped to free me up of that huge pressure within.

You know you are strong and you don’t need other people to make you feel inferior.

Those people do this because they themselves have a huge inferiority complex. So what they do is pull everyone around them down with them – if you let them!

I just let this happen yesterday from some twat who tried to – and managed to pull me down (see my anal reader behavior post).

Be strong by creating the necessary distance you need and start to hang out with empowering people instead. It will do wonders for you, believe me.

I hope this will help you to empower yourself. If you ever feel like chatting between two strong women, drop me a line and we can hook up on skype.

Take care and let me know how you go please.

But for those of us who ride through those times, there is light on the other side. I’m glad you liked the whole analogy of the post.

Thanks for the heads up. I just replied. Did you consider using a subscribe to comments Plugin? Just an idea, it might bring people back to their earlier comments more easy.

This sounds like the classical egoistic ride of parents who want better for their kids than they had, so they go and abuse the sh*t out of them, paying a huge price.

Sad.

How is your bum? Are you sore?