Coping With Job Application Rejection
In times of global distress in the marketplace it is more important than ever to stick with your guns, whatever they may be. One of the biggest fear new freelance writers have when they get started is how they should cope with rejection after applying or bidding for freelance writing jobs.
This is only normal as we embark into the unknown. It happens to all of us and I still remember my own insecurity of how to handle bids and applications. If you are currently in that position know this; every journey starts with a small step and unless you take that step, not much will happen.
This applies to anything we are trying to achieve in life. Whether it is to become a niche marketer, a writer, a pilot or something else.
Unless you apply this principle to your dream, your dream will never become a reality.
How to approach writing job bidding websites
If you really want to get going in this industry you have to take pro-active measures. I still think that job bidding websites are a great tool for new freelancers as they allow you to choose from the variety of job offers.
The hardest part about them is to break into them as a recognized service professional. The secret here is to persist.
In the process of bidding for jobs there will be many instances where you either won’t receive a reply at all, or else you fail to negotiate an acceptable rate with the potential client.
The only thing you can do to overcome this is by bidding for as many jobs as you could possibly handle if they were all to be yours. That is exactly what I did. And guess what? Jobs were gradually starting to stick.
The saying “if you throw enough mud onto a wall some of it will eventually stick” is old. But the same principles apply to your writing job hunt.
Dealing with rejection
Dealing with rejection becomes a lot easier once you have a good pool of clients. In the beginning it is hard as every no will sound like a personal failure. Unfortunately there is no other way than to go right through the middle of this if you want to come up on the other end.
Persist!
Keep sending those applications, queries and emails. Look for more ways to find work. The biggest mistake most beginners make is to stick with the one site only. Throw in some variations and bid – bid – bid until you think there is nothing left to bid on.
Another thing you have to be vary off is that in the beginning you will be hard pressed to be appointed the best freelance writing jobs. These only come with your experience and your conviction that you are indeed a good writer.
How to avoid rejection in the first place
By far the easiest way to avoid rejection is by standing apart from the masses. It worked for me and will do so for you too. Be different, be better and most important of all, be your best at every opportunity that presents itself to you!
It is easy to spy on your competition at job bidding websites as many of them feature a contact messaging system for bidders. If they are public you can see what others bid in front of you and how they presented their business for the job.
By standing out I mean to propose an offer that is hard to resist, sprinkled with your own personality. I can guarantee you that in most cases this will work. Finding the right tone of voice however is the real challenge here. You can learn a lot by studying these websites for a minimum of one week before you become active.
Fear of rejection mustn’t be a reason to get stuck – quite the opposite; now go them ‘em.
Monika









Davina | Jan 22, 2009 | Reply
Hi Monika. Thanks for the reinforcement. I signed up with GoFreelance for the month of December and bid on some jobs with no results. I also bid on a few jobs on a job board, again with no results. Then I did manage to get a couple of small proofreading jobs from contacts here in town so I abandoned that activity. It’s time to return and persist and as you say, don’t just stick with one.
Brett Legree | Jan 22, 2009 | Reply
Most of my experience with this has been from bricks & mortar type applications.
It was several years ago I changed my outlook on it, because of course an interview works both ways – the prospective employee is also interviewing the employer.
So I took the attitude that if they didn’t choose me, *they* were not a good fit for me, and it was “their* loss!
A few times I’ve had people call me to say I’d not been selected, and I have thanked them for it, wished them well with the person they did select, and finished by saying that it was probably for the best. It seems to make it easier for the person on the other end too.
I’ll have to remember that as I apply for freelance writing jobs!
-Brett
scott | Jan 23, 2009 | Reply
Thanks Monika as a new freelance writer I have found a lot of rejection but it doesn’t sound like I am by myself.
I think to hear you say stick with it persistence counts gives me a lot of motivation to do just that!
Monika | Jan 23, 2009 | Reply
@ Davina: Good on you for wanting to keep going. I know from personal experience and also from a lot of my readers that the biggest issue they face is rejection. I think rejection is actually healthy as it makes us try harder, therefore improving our abilities consistently.
Doing what you did and working locally is another fantastic way to pick up a lot of business.
@ Brett: Yep, you are dead right with that one. It is the other persons loss. I like the way you treated the other person who had to bring you the bad news too. It shows character and is no doubt impressing them because they probably expect a nasty reply.
I learned from my time with mlm that if people say no to us it isn’t because they don’t like us (except in rare cases i guess), but rather because at THAT time in place, they have no need for our services, product. I try to keep that in mind whenever I hear a no now.
@ Scott: No, you are certainly not alone. We all experience rejection, regardless on what level we are. The secret with marketing yourself lies in the numbers alone. Do it often enough, and some of it will stick!
Just keep going and if you get totally stuck, drop me an email and I see whether I can help.
Monika
Brett Legree | Jan 24, 2009 | Reply
@Monika,
I believe it always pays us to think positively even when we don’t get the positive response we hoped to get, because as you say – maybe they don’t need us NOW, but they might need us in future.